22 Secrets Of Women That Help You Win Their Hearts

from the heart

March 4th, 2015   |   Updated on February 20th, 2024

She is sleeping next to you. You have just made love with her. You are confident that she loves you.

Oh, you are not sure. Does she loves you so much that she wears your old T-shirt when you go away? Only because it smells like you.

Men believe that women are a complex species; however there are two sides to a story! It’s really easy to make any women happy. Here are 22 secrets that you must know to win her heart.

1. It’s The Little Things That Mean The Most

Women find happiness in the little daily things that men do for them. Why not make us breakfast in the morning, run us a bath after a hard day’s work or simply cuddle on the sofa watching our favourite movie. Trust me, you will be rewarded.


2. Be Attentive

Women love to talk about their feelings, this is just the way we are. They will let you in on their deepest feelings, because we trust the men in our lives to make us feel better. So please be attentive and listen when we share these feelings with you and remember a hug or two can go a long way in a relationship.

2. Be attentive


3. Say Sorry

Apologize when you did something inappropriate in your relationship. Say sorry and mean it. This SMALL word can make a HUGE difference in a relationship.

3. Say sorry


4. Cook Us Dinner

Nothing can make a women’s heart melt faster than a men cooking dinner!

Woman smiling at her pan-holding husband


5. Help Us

Try and help us where you can, even if it is just taking out the trash, a trip to the store or doing the dishes. There’s absolutely nothing more annoying than a man that is lazy. Learn that this is a shared responsibility.

Couple washing up in kitchen, woman smiling at man


6. We Need ‘Me Time’

Sometimes we just need a little time to ourselves. Just to relax, take care of ourselves or simply to be alone. We do have a lot on our minds, so please allow us this time. Nothing is wrong we just want some ‘me time.’

6. We need 'me time'


7. Notice The Small Things

We do want to know when you notice the small little efforts we make. It does not matter if it is a new hairstyle, clothes or perfume. Say something so that we know you do appreciate our efforts.

7. Notice the small things


8. Never Forget Our Anniversary Or Birthday

These are the two days in the year that you simply cannot forget. If you must set a reminder, write it down, or mark it on your calendar. She will never forgive you if you do not remember these important days.



9. Things from the heart count

Women appreciate little things that come from the heart. From a self-made birthday card to a CD of all our favourite music. We will forever be grateful. You cannot go wrong with this one!

from the heart


10. Respect Us

This is the one thing that women value from their partners. To be treated the way that they would like to be treated and to feel appreciated. Show her you care every day.

respect us


11. Be Honest

Nothing is more irritating than a man that loves to lie. Honesty is the best policy and without it what’s the point of being in a relationship?

11. Be honest


12. We’re Suckers For Romance

We love everything that involves romance-flowers, candlelight dinners, gifts etc.

suckers for romance


13. Chivalry Is Not Dead

Be old fashioned every now and then- we freaking love it. Hold the door; pull out the chair at the dinner table. Be a gentleman!

pull out the chair


14. A Good Sense Of Humour

We want to know that we have someone whom we can be silly around, someone to have a good laugh with. Be that somebody.


15. We’re Not Impossible To Understand!

If you acknowledge the fact that we are human and not some kind of species you will realize that we not that different from you.



16. You Can’t Live Without Us

Admit it! Men sometimes take women for granted, but the truth is; men can’t live without women. Who would take care of them or build their confidence?

16. You can't live without us


17. We Don’t Want To Be A “Good” Girl/girlfriend/wife!

We just want to know that you accept us the way we are.


18. Have Ambition

Be ambitious in your life, it is admirable. Women are not attractive to men that do not care and have no desire to become anything in life.

Women are not attractive to men


19. Confidence Is Hot

Regardless of how confident you feel inside, a self-assured and secure attitude is what will make us notice you. If you must, fake confidence until you reached the point where it comes naturally. Women love men that feel happy in their own skin. This make us feel safe in your presence.

Confidence is hot


20. We’re Not “Easy” Just Because We Asked You Out First!

Just because she asked you out first do not mean that she is the man within the relationship. She only took the first step because she really likes you.


21. We Do Appreciate Kind Gestures

Kisses, hugs, and a phone call during the day just to tell us you love us we appreciate it. This is all it takes to make us feel appreciated.

21. Kisses,hug


22. Spend Quality Time

Just like we need some time to ourselves, we also need quality time with you. Even if you have to set aside 30 minutes a day just to spend some uninterrupted time together do it. You will notice a huge difference in the relationship.

Quality Time

Please note: not all of us are feminist because we talk about female empowerment!

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