At times, women can get a little overboard with emotions or forget how to use voice modulations while they are up for some heated conversation. Not that it is only women who are difficult to control during an argument, but most often women are more sensitive and serious than men, and therefore, what you say to them is very important.
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Guys, during an argument with your lady, you must be careful with your words! So, here are 10 things you should definitely avoid saying to her when you are arguing.
1. “WHATEVER, IT’S FINE.”
When you sense an argument brewing, your instinct may be to avoid conflict by bowing out early.
2. “THAT’S RIDICULOUS!”
This sends the message that your partner’s perspective isn’t valid.
3. “OH, THAT’S JUST GREAT.”
Check your sarcasm during a disagreement.
4. “YOU NEVER…”
Kicking off a complaint with “you always” or “you never” puts the other person on the defensive, and it’s rarely accurate.
5. “CALM DOWN!”
Needless to say, this blithe phrase usually has the exact opposite effect.
By definition, this overrides whatever your partner just said.
7. “LET’S JUST DROP IT.”
Fighting is stressful, and it’s totally understandable if one of you needs a breather. But when tempers are flaring, you can’t simply shut down the discussion.
8. “YOU’RE SUCH A #$%*&!”
Even when your partner is pushing every button you have, resist the urge to prey on her insecurities.
9. “IT SHOULDN’T BE THIS HARD.”
If it’s meant to be, it’ll be effortless, right? Maybe in the movies, but real-life relationships take work.
10. “MAYBE I SHOULD JUST LEAVE.”
Hinting at a breakup can chip away at trust, especially if you bring up The End every time you’re angry.
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