10 Things You Should Never Say To Your Girlfriend In A Fight

At times, women can get a little overboard with emotions or forget how to use voice modulations while they are up for some heated conversation. Not that it is only women who are difficult to control during an argument, but most often women are more sensitive and serious than men, and therefore, what you say to them is very important.

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Guys, during an argument with your lady, you must be careful with your words! So, here are 10 things you should definitely avoid saying to her when you are arguing.

1. “WHATEVER, IT’S FINE.”

Things You Should Never Say

When you sense an argument brewing, your instinct may be to avoid conflict by bowing out early.

 

2. “THAT’S RIDICULOUS!”

Things You Should Never Say

This sends the message that your partner’s perspective isn’t valid.

3. “OH, THAT’S JUST GREAT.”

Things You Should Never Say

Check your sarcasm during a disagreement.

 

4. “YOU NEVER…”

Things You Should Never Say

Kicking off a complaint with “you always” or “you never” puts the other person on the defensive, and it’s rarely accurate.

5. “CALM DOWN!”

Things You Should Never Say

Needless to say, this blithe phrase usually has the exact opposite effect.

 

6. “BUT…”

Things You Should Never Say

By definition, this overrides whatever your partner just said.

7. “LET’S JUST DROP IT.”

Things You Should Never Say

Fighting is stressful, and it’s totally understandable if one of you needs a breather. But when tempers are flaring, you can’t simply shut down the discussion.

 

8. “YOU’RE SUCH A #$%*&!”

Things You Should Never Say

Even when your partner is pushing every button you have, resist the urge to prey on her insecurities.

9. “IT SHOULDN’T BE THIS HARD.”

Things You Should Never Say

If it’s meant to be, it’ll be effortless, right? Maybe in the movies, but real-life relationships take work.

 

10. “MAYBE I SHOULD JUST LEAVE.”

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Hinting at a breakup can chip away at trust, especially if you bring up The End every time you’re angry.

 

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source:menshealth.com

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