December 31st, 2018 | Updated on April 26th, 2023
The dawn of a new year is when we make pledges for self-improvement. Small changes eventually add up to huge results.
Make these 32 changes in your love life that will really make lasting changes in the New Year 2019.
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1. Be Selective With Who You Give Your Heart To. Make Sure That They Are Worthy, That They Deserve It, That They Will Hold It Carefully.
2. Do The Same Thing With The Hearts Of Others. Be Gentle, Be Respectful, Remember That Any Heart That Is Placed In Your Hands Is Attached To Someone’s Soul.
3. Remember That The Timeline Of Your Love Life Will Always Be The Right Timeline For You. Remember That Whichever Way Your Life Works Out Is The Exact Way It Is Supposed To Work Out.
4. Understand That Someone Wanting To Be With You Simply Because They Are Lonely Is Not Love It’s Selfishness And Fear.
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5. Be Comfortable With Standing Up For Yourself When You’re Right, And Be Comfortable With Apologizing When You’re Wrong.
6. Stop Wasting Your Time With People Who Make You Feel Small, Or Not Good Enough, Or Like You Need To Change Yourself.
7. Remind Yourself That It’s Completely Possible To Be In A Healthy And Happy Relationship And To Still Have A Completely Solid Sense Of Self And A Solid Sense Of Independence.
8. Understand That If You Want To Feel The Pure High Of Truly Falling In Love, You Have To Be Willing To Jump And You Have To Be Willing To Get Hurt.
9. If You Get Hurt, Remember That It’s So Much Better To Have Let Your Heart Experience This Than It Is To Sit ‘safely’ In A Dark Room, Never Being Shattered But Also Never Truly Experiencing How Much The Human Heart Can Feel.
10. Remember That You Are Under No Obligation To Explain Or Rationalize Any Part Of Your Love Life To Anyone, Unless You Want To.
11. Listen To And Take In The Advice Of People You Trust, But Remember That At The End Of The Day, Only You Know What’s Best For You.
12. Remind Yourself Every Day That You Don’t Need A Significant Other In Order To Combat Your Loneliness. And That If You Can Work Up The Courage To Ask For Help.
13. Tell Someone When You Like Them And Don’t Feel Weird About It. If They Like You Too, Great. If They Don’t, This Is The Best Possible Way To Weed Out The Kind Of Person Who Is Just Here To Play Games.
14. Remember That Real Love Means Seeing One Another’s Greatest Flaws And Insecurities And Loving Each Other All The More Because Of How Human It Makes You And How Much Stronger It Makes Your Connection.
15. Don’t Apologize For Having High Standards, As Long As Those Standards Are Focused On Finding Someone Who Treats You Well And Makes You Feel Loved.
16. Wake Up Earlier. Stop Procrastinating And Finish Those Pesky Chores And Errands Before You Have Your Morning Coffee.
17. Take Daily Walks. This Will Not Only Make Your Body Feel Better, This Will Get Your Endorphins Flowing And Will Decrease Your Stress.
18. Remind Yourself Of One Thing To Be Grateful For Every Day.
19. Smile More.
20. Call Your Parents Once A Week. You’ll Make Their Day.
21. Go To The Farmers Market On Sundays Instead Of Ordering Take Out Chinese Food. Make Your Meal And Take The Time To Learn How To Cook Meals You Actually Enjoy.
22. Delete Your Dating Apps. Really, All They Do Is Take Up Space In Your Phone And Are A Huge Waste Of Your Time.
23. Have One Less Drink At The Bar Than What You Would Normally Consider Your Limit. You’ll Thank Me In The Morning.
24. Write Out A List Of Things You Want To Accomplish Every Single Day. This Will Help You Visualize What Your Goals Are And Will Help You Stay Focused On What You Truly Want In Your Life.
25. Stop The Gossiping. You Will Only Get Yourself In More Trouble, And You Won’t Feel Too Good About Yourself For Spreading So Much Negativity.
26. Buy Some Fresh Flowers. There’s Nothing Like A Nice Bouquet Of Great Smelling Flowers To Raise Your Spirits And Freshen Up Your Living Space.
27. Give More Hugs. Even If You Aren’t A Big Hugger, Hugging Will Make You Appreciate The Many People In Your Life That You Normally Don’t See On A Daily Basis.
28. Catch Up With Old Friends. Spending Time With Friends Who Have Lost Touch With You Will Make You Feel Proud Of Yourself For Taking Time Out To Make The Effort. Who Knows What Could Come From Your Newly Awakened Relationships.
29. Stop Hiding Your Feelings Out Of Fear. Tell That Boy You Like Him. Tell That Girl You Love Her. Stop Missing Opportunities Just Because You Fear Rejection.
30. Listen To More Music. Instead Of Browsing The Internet Or Binge Watching Netflix Like You Normally Do, Turn Up The Radio And Take Time Out To Appreciate Good Music And Take A Breather.
31. Throw Out Old Clothes. Take Time Out Of Your Busy Day And Go Through Your Closet. Get Rid Of Old And Worn Out Clothing You Never Use Anymore. I Guarantee, You’re Going To Feel Lighter After Getting Rid Of All Of Those Items.
32. Love More. Stop Dwelling On The Negative And Toxic Relationships. Tell Your Loved Ones How Much They Mean To You And Never Take Those People For Granted.
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