How To Go Down On Her: Don’t Eat Like A Dog. Don’t Think Your Tongue Is A Penis

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Published on May 21st, 2019

Going down on her has the potential to be intensely pleasurable for your girlfriend. But you have to know the art of how to go down on her. Your tongue is a great tool. You can be a talented cunnilinguist.

If you care about your partner’s pleasure at all (and you should), it’s time to stop thinking of going down on her as foreplay. Instead, think of it as a co-main event .

Here is ten tips on how to perform mind-blowing oral sex on her.


1. You Are Not Doing It With Your Penis

Your tongue is not a penis. Oral sex has to be like a well-placed kiss: moist, unhurried, and organized. It’s not just about seeing how far you can stick your stiff tongue in.


2. Don’t Act Like A Dog

The clitoris is a sensitive area! If the girl is pulling back, get a hold of yourself.” If you’re acting like a dog lapping up water from a dish, you’re probably doing something wrong.”


3. Touch, Kiss And Massage

Massaging and kissing the vulva (the external part of the vagina), and touching and caressing before beginning oral sex really helps.


4. How Can You Forget Her Thighs, Hips And Legs

Clit and nipples are not the only erogenous zones that a woman has. Don’t forget the rest of her body, especially the legs and back.

Run your fingers down their thighs, grab their hips, or reach for their breasts (more on how to do that like a total boss here) and massage those babies because they need some love, too.


5. Tell Her What Is So Special About Her Vagina

Many women don’t think they’re very attractive down there, which is bullshit! Take a good look and say, with sincerity, what you like about her vagina and be specific! What’s appealing about the color, shape, scent, taste.


6. Keep Getting Her Feedback

Ask if they like it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk, but also, not all vulvas are created equal.

Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, makes, models, etc, so you’re going to run into some different preferences. More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one person versus another.


7. It Is Like Taking The First Slice Of Pizza. She May Want More

It’s like taking the first slice of pizza from the cheesiest pie and watching the gooey cheese stretch like a waterfall. It’s like unicorns eating ice cream and galloping around the rings of Saturn.

It’s like bacon. It’s an intense and concentrated feeling that no one wants just one of. So if or when your partner orgasms, don’t dust off your hands and move on – give them another.


8. Use Your Whole Face

Using your whole face and not just your tongue can be incredibly helpful. Your nose can also be used to provide stimulation as well, so don’t be afraid to give that a shot.


9. Give Your Tongue Some Rest

10. It Pays To Be Patient

Patience goes a long way when you’re trying to get a woman off, particularly when it comes to oral sex. Focus on a slow buildup, then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm.