Published on April 12th, 2019
A couple where one or both partners are suffering from addiction to alcohol or drugs is under the additional pressure of mutual trust that can lead to a quick end.
Fortunately, some people start to understand at some point that substance abuse ruins not only their physical health but their union. The question is, should they undergo treatment separately or enroll in a program for couples?
What Are The Benefits Of Couples Rehab?
Recognition of the problem is the first step to recovery. When people understand that they need to go into particular rehab for drug addicted couples, they become closer to the mutual benefits of getting treatment together.
- Relationships won’t change for the better if no one is talking. Behavioral couples therapy helps to resolve the conflicts, learn to respect each other and provide mutual support during recovery.
- Both partners feel more motivated as they work towards the same goal of sobriety. They make joint efforts, demonstrate commitment and trust. A couple makes a list of reasons why they both need to quit, whether it’s for their relationship, children, health, job, or other reason.
- Another major benefit of drug rehab for families is the opportunity to find the real root of the problem. When people undergo individual therapy, they start blaming their partner in most of their problems. When they work together, another person gets a chance to defend themselves and understand where he was really wrong.
Usually, couples rehab offers a combination of separate and joint counseling. But the staff believes that it’s almost impossible to save a union if one partner stops abusing substances and the other person doesn’t seek treatment. Research proves that couples-based therapy leads to greater abstinence, more relationship satisfaction, and fewer separations than individual treatment.
When Couple Therapy Is Not An Option
For all its effectiveness, rehab for couples may have some drawbacks:
- Couples with a recent history of severe physical aggression shouldn’t try behavioral couple therapy. An abused partner may not be completely honest and candid when speaking with their providers because of the fear of an aggressive partner. In this case, the physically abusive partner is advised to treat the problem of domestic violence first.
- One partner’s relapse might trigger the other one to slip. Since the risk of relapse is very high during the stabilization period, it’s extremely important for the patients to be in an environment free from alcohol and drugs. If one of the partners doesn’t really strive to sobriety, this may harm them both.
- A couple starts their recovery process together. Sometimes, one person shows better progress. It may happen that he/she ends up feeling burdened by a partner or spouse who is still struggling. Another one who is moving slower may feel a loser.
Author: Frederick Moore is a blogger who investigates human health issues and behaviorist anthropology. He researches substance abuse problems and the ways to overcome addictions.