October 18th, 2019 | Updated on June 27th, 2022
Dating is not easy, especially if you want to date locally and find someone new who lives near you and who you haven’t had a chance to meet yet. Of course, you can always opt to find local girls online and see whose profiles look the most interesting and which ones you would like to chat up.
For some, it is easier to make the first step online and then transfer the good vibes to an actual date. But if you are brave enough to venture offline, there are some effective old-fashioned ways you can meet interesting local girls.
1. Approaching A Girl At The Local Pub
Pubs are always a better option then clubs in you want to meet local girls, the music isn’t so loud, and you can simply walk to her table and introduce yourself. Now, there is an actual trick to how one does this, you need to be spontaneous and honest.
Yes, yes there are numerous pick-up lines that will get you shut down before you finish the sentence, and then there is the straight approach. Just go to the table, introduce yourself and tell the girl you like that you are interested in getting to know her better, without all the bells and whistles, she will see right through that.
Of course, there is always a chance that she will say no, maybe she isn’t interested, or she is already taken. The polite way is to say that it was nice to have met her and step away. Even that might be detrimental to get her a bit more interested in you.
2. Don’t Miss The Opportunity At A Theater Or Art Gallery
Being at any of these two places already increases your chances with girls, you just need to use the right approach. At the theater, you can use the intermission or the line for coats to chat a girl up.
The topic is right there, ask her how she feels about the play, what effect did it have on her and so on, and if you are able to engage her there, you can easily transfer the conversation to a local cafe and enjoy a drink together. With the art gallery, it is even simpler, you have a lot of opportunities, just choose the piece of art you would like to bond over.
Just make sure you don’t come on too strong, and if you try to chat her up but you don’t get the expected response, step away, going from painting to painting trying over and over again will get you in trouble, you even might end up seaming stalkerish.
3. And, Yes Online
Yes, yes, we said old-fashioned, but it is still important to discuss this option of meeting local girls online a bit further. For a lot of local girls, online dating is their second nature, almost every girl has a profile on the major dating platforms, but this doesn’t mean that you will get a sure response to your attempts. The first rule is to avoid being too pushy and vulgar.
So, no means no, and no one wants to see pictures of your private parts except if they explicitly ask for it. You should use the same approach you would in a pub and combine it with the one from the theatre and gallery. So be open and honest and try to bond over common interests, it is a sure way to get a date out of it.
This might seem too simple, but it should be. We make all these plans in our heads and usually fail just trying to execute them.
So why not try the simplest possible approach and see what happens? Yes, there will be some rejections but that is just a part of the dating game and you shouldn’t get discouraged the first time you hear a no.